Try taking a friend or arranging a time to check in with someone afterwards.
Be discreet
Cruising for sex carries a risk – for some people, that makes it hot. In other situations, it’s complicated. These were historic offences made to criminalize gay sex, and were almost exclusively applied to queer men.
In the US, anti-sodomy laws were ruled invalid by a 2003 Supreme Court decision but some states still technically have them (even though they are unenforceable).
Why do people cruise?
There can be different reasons people cruise. Some environments, like remote areas at night, can be riskier.
So even if you hooked up in an empty public washroom, this counts because someone could walk in.
The enforcement of these laws is not always even.
Due to structural racism in law enforcement, cruising can be riskier for Black and Indigenous people.
Cruising tips
If you’re going to cruise, here are a few tips to make things safer. But remember that in many cases, public hookups are against the law. Here’s a few of the most common:
Safety
Cruising spots in public can be safer than a stranger’s apartment.
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While exact spots vary by location, there are certain types of places where cruising has naturally become part of the culture. Some people will have sex right there, while some may take their partner to a more discreet location. Bathhouses and dark rooms are legal alternatives for this.
Clean up after yourself!
Nobody likes a litterbug.
These can all be turn-ons for some people.
Is cruising legal?
Cruising for sex in licensed sex venues is legal. This can be appealing for people who aren’t out or comfortable in queer spaces.
Lack of alternatives
Bathhouses and other sex venues offer spaces for queer people to cruise and hook up, but these have been in decline since the 1980s.
It’s anonymous, there’ll be others to watch or watch you and there’s the chance of getting caught. Take any trash (like lube packets, wipes or condom wrappers) with you. These spaces are often frequented by men who enjoy voyeurism or group play in a controlled indoor setting.
🚶♂️ Footpaths, Trails & Canals
In some areas, long walking trails or canals become informal cruising areas, especially near towns and cities.
Gay cruising is the art of hooking up in public. Many have private rooms, dark areas, and group spaces.
🎥 Adult Cinemas & Video Booths
Adult cinemas with private viewing areas or booths are also known for casual, anonymous encounters. Here’s a helpful overview of the most common environments where men meet for spontaneous, discreet encounters.
🌳 Public Parks & Woodlands
Quiet areas with paths, wooded sections, and hidden corners are popular for cruising.
You’re technically allowed to flirt or meet up with strangers in public – if that’s all you’re doing.